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Pearl Deshaies

Pearl Deshaies

Sunday, January 30th, 1938 - Wednesday, January 29th, 2020
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Obituary

Pearl M. Deshaies, 81, of Kirkville, passed away Wednesday, January 29, 2020.

Born in Norfolk on January 30, 1938, she was the daughter of the late Charles and Ethyl Queor.

Pearl was raised by nuns in a catholic orphanage until she as 17 in Ogdensburg.

She was proud of her heritage and married a marine, making her the sweet, fierce and spunky person that she was throughout her life. Being a caregiver of 40 years, she retired at 70 and was a home health caregiver until she was 80 years old.

Reaching for everything she wanted in the most selfless way possible, she was a devoted wife and loving mother and grandmother. She was always giving of herself to others.

She loved her card games, baking and cooking for her family.

She was predeceased by her siblings, Catherine, Bill, Bob, Myrtle, Viola, and Violet; and grandson, Derek Deshaies.

Surviving are her husband of 63 years, Jack Deshaies; children, Tim (Connie) Deshaies, Brenda (David) Thompson, Theresa (Marc) Weigner and Marcel (Ellen) Deshaies; grandchildren, Jacob and Joshua, Michael, Richard, Helen, Chelsea, Chance, Peter, Shannon, Samantha, Danielle David, Brandon, Steven, Willa and Oscar; great grandchildren, Travis, Dillon, Helena, Abbygail, Jonathan, Charlotte, Destannie, Nolen, and Kailey; sister, Effie Marie; brother, Edward (Susan) Mayville; and several nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Calling hours will be Wednesday, February 5 from 9 to 10:30 am at R.H. Schepp & Son Minoa Chapel, 6530 Schepps Corners Road, Minoa. A Rite of Christian Burial will follow at 11am at St. Mary’s Church, Minoa. Burial will be in St. Mary’s Cemetery, Minoa.
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Service Details

  • Visitation

    Wednesday, February 5th, 2020 | 9:00am - 10:30am
    When
    Wednesday, February 5th, 2020 9:00am - 10:30am
    Location
    R. H. Schepp & Son Minoa Chapel
    Address
    6530 Schepp's Corners Road
    Minoa, New York 13116
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  • Service

    Wednesday, February 5th, 2020 | 11:00am
    When
    Wednesday, February 5th, 2020 11:00am
    Location
    St. Mary's Church
    Address
    401 North Main Street
    Minoa, NY 13116
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Tina shanahan

Posted at 12:08pm
Pearl I can remember all the team work we did at the crossings and all your bake goods also the good time we had at the Xmas party
Love you 💜
Tina shanahan
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Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Fly high sweet Pearl
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Nancy Cassella

Posted at 09:23pm
Mary, Sharon & Family, I am so sorry for your loss. She was a nice lady. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Nancy Cassella
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